3 Confident Female Mindsets That Drive Guys Wild… (Matthew Hussey, Get The Guy)

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Hey everyone!

I wanted to give you a little something from my tour so far, so that wherever you are in the world you can get a taste of what’s happening all around America right now.

As I’m sure you know by now, in celebration of my new book GetTheGuy, and my new show on NBC ‘Ready For Love’, I’m going to 10 major USA cities to help women across America find love.

This video was taken from a question and answer session at my LA event (the first stop on the tour). I still have 9 more stops to go, and there is still time to get tickets.

I hope you enjoy the video. You’ll see me answering questions asked live by the audience. Amongst the questions I answer are:

-How do I deal with it when a guy is blowing hot and cold?

-What if I shut down with new guys because I’ve been hurt in the past?

-Is it ok to date multiple men at the same time?

-How do I figure out if he has a girlfriend or not when I first meet him?

-What should I do if I keep attracting the wrong men?


Matthew x

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  1. I didn't expect much from this at the beginning as Im kinda fine with both being single or dating someone. But what I like the message this video is sending the it helps me feel confidence to solve any problem in life even if it is not common solution to most people. So, thanks much!

  2. Confidence is someone who doesn't have wear makeup often and can go out even without makeup.
    Confident women don't hate either. Confident women stand up for herself and other innocent women and dont torolate abuse hassrament bullies from disrespectful dishonest behavior of people.
    Confident woman like confident man. A strong woman dont need to show a guy how strong a woman is.
    A man that can take care of herself, if he want to not because he has to. Even those the guy know a woman can do things on her own it's still good for anyone who wants to meet the person better than that in person not online dating sites are untrustable and not the same thing as dating in person.
    When "women" get hurt, women have a choices can be more determined movatation not give up. Because it's not the end but a new beginning.
    Make decisions about it.
    See the options then make a decision, then force on a guy. But keep force on your own life let guy doing chasing. Dont tell a guy everything at once.
    Confident strong independent doesn't have any problems with the person and see what happens when a guy is interested in a positive woman who survivors seizures,abuse, cyber abuse cyber harrassment, cyberbullies. Just be yourself.
    Spend more time in real world less time online because online is not same thing to going outdoors for all seasons on the spring or summer like what some guys assume to do most women.

  3. How stupid is that to lead someone on ig your taken just cause you enjoy the exchange. Life is short and men have little time also, you know? Stupid bimbos.

  4. How adorable.
    I just had this on in the dark (the closest I got to mindlessly having some "filler sound/noise" in the background) when I couldn't help laughing at some of the things the guy said. At the end I went from being a "just let this play til the end. Then whatever" to " ? " the Good Heart got my attention. So I'm still open to what this fella's got to say . Thanks! ?

  5. Well done Matt that’s an amazing video ??but just one question I meet guys I like or crush on for the first time and Every time i feel I totally blew it because I start being loud and nervous and try to be a lot super funny
    recently one of my friends advised me that I should be calm and more focused because this way I’m driving the guys I like away but I’m not exactly sure what to do to stay calm and confident around someone I really like
    Plz help I need your advice thanks

  6. Ladies whatever you do in life do it because you want to that thing, enjoying becoming more capable and skilled.. Not because you want to attract some dude.. This mindset imposed on women is absolutely unnecessary..

  7. "If you're attractive, you're not gonna always attract great guys… you're gonna attract some crazies, because you're attractive." DAMN..that's scary, and very true

  8. I rent my own Uhaul and move with no help. I've always supported myself even when I was married because I having had not father in the home attracted a man who was used to having women take care of him and I ended up more like his mother than his wife. That's been over for a while and I've attracted 2 feminine men since. I am finally starting to understand that though I know I absolutely can do it myself it is very nice to have a man that wants to help me. I dont have to pretend to be helpless or pretend to be afraid of spiders (I'm always saving men from spiders) I can however allow him to help me lift something or change a tire if it makes him feel good.

  9. Fun video! This guy is funny, witty, smart and cute. That said, if he's such a "relationship expert" why is he single? No ring? I feel more inclined to trust someone who has experience and wisdom to share while in a healthy, committed relationship. Just saying.

  10. This is all about games! Who wants that? Why don't you people just grow up and get authentic. If people want to engage, why allow, the mental gym? Who wants this strategising, it's all a lie. You are gaslighting. Yes, we have a choice. You think you know?

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